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Erin Carbone, George Loewenstein, Irene Scopelliti, and Joachim Vosgerau, "He Said, She Said: Gender Differences in the Disclosure of Positive and Negative Information," Journal of Experimental Social Psychology 110 (2024): 104525, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2023.104525 (https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2023.104525).




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Steven Soifer and Richard Ziprin, "Paruresis or Shy Bladder Syndrome: The Little Known Social Phobia," The Behavior Therapist 23, no. 10 (2000): pp.217218.




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